Friday, September 09, 2011

back to bed...

I was sick in bed all morning, had to call in sick to work. took an aleve felt better this afternoon but haven't eaten anything all day. will try before bed..bring on the weekend! blah

let's start the weekend w/ some wrestling bulges...

tumblr style...

BTW: the guy in the black and white pic above is my granddad who grew up in CT. :)

Thursday, September 08, 2011


someone's GOT to comment on that super hot pic of the three guys in the br on tuesday --- the things you could imagine about that pic......whew!!! :)

this week has been great at work. it finally cooled off so I've been out in the yard after the gym each afternoon. the kids are working through my lessons ok. I'm losing two of my classes this week little by little.... and in their place will be the smaller classes of newcomer students... woot woot... they are tough to work with as well but in smaller numbers I keep 'em in hand. the hardest part so far is a few of the kids dealing with a lot of home family problems, it makes 'em go bonkers at school sometimes or like want to do nothing in class...... I try to give 'em a little support and encouragement whenever I get an aside. I'm excited about trying innovative things now that I'll have 'em twice a day. for example start a lesson and continue during the second class I have 'em in each day... we shall see! :)
ok my monthly stock club report. today we talked about First Trust and Target GLobal Dividend Leaders reports.... ha. and we all LOVE Sandridge right now (SD) and we decided to buy shares of NRGY since it pays dividends of 10%... wallah. me personally I still want to buy some shares of DRYS but all my funds going to trips and stuff this fall. alas. hope all are enjoying the week. Best of wishes to my buddy 'rugbysex' his basement was flooded in PA from all rain. sorry my friend. send the rain to OKC!!!!!

bowie rules ----

Wednesday, September 07, 2011

more cute guys...

put yourself OUT there...

had to post this clip of my buddy in Dallas. I'm so proud of him, he is exactly himself in this interview... the interviewer sort of going for some juicy story and Randy just tells it like it is, thoughtfully as always. Writing has helped him come to terms with many things about his life, he's completely sincere. (he's 6'3 and yes, hot!) I love the ending where he smiles and says thanks, I think that smile says - oh, it's over. Randy really is more of the kind to keep to himself. Yet here he is sharing his story. It's right in line with what I'm going on about all the time on this blog, me keeping up with my faith and deciding how to live a gay life or come out to the family etc..
I love his wise response when asked about Oral Roberts being proud of his homosexuality -- his answer is what every family should strive for whether they believe homosexuality is right or wrong. Regardless, they should continue to remain gracious and still love a person no matter what.

Tuesday, September 06, 2011

wanna hang out later?....

what I like about you...

the reason I'm posting this is at 4:02 to 4:34 or so, seriously skip ahead!.... mmmmmm. Hollie and Vince are playing out like divorced parents fighting over the "kids" their friends. So I like the way Vince goes over and pets his buddy in the chair, and then strokes his face... that is sort of hot hot. good ole Nick Zano... always liked him on that show and may have had a few thoughts about him and his black roomie... THere is something curious at 7:23, some kind of gay humor. There could be many thesis-es written about portrayal of gays and gay humor in sitcoms over the years, sensitivity versus none, gereralizations and stereotyping etc etc...
oh yeah, I caught this episode while flipping channels Saturday morning while my friends were still sleeping and their 8th grade kid was up waiting patiently for me to quit watching tv so he could play some video games. ha My friends and I discussed how ABC family channel is not at ALL a family channel. I mean this episode on at 9 am?? and the content and everything is way more adult themed than for kids if ya ask me. I always loved those themes when I used to watch this some nights when I was back in school. hot jennie garth and hot nick zano... yup!
( I think I've mentioned before my go to fantasy for many years was 2 drunk hottie college guys on springs break getting seduced by some hot marines or muscled up locals etc etc... hubba hubba....)

Monday, September 05, 2011

what up wknd!?

when I first arrived to the small AR town where I attended college at, I first went to the downtown city barber shop... in hopes of seeing Bill the barber and getting a cut for old times sake. turns out he only works Tues and Wed now and is semi retired.. ah shucks. I went ahead and got a cut from some other guy, and man I mean CHOPPED. I asked for a high and tight, real short around the back and sides and longer on top so that it lays down... well it's pretty much a buzz cut with sort of more on the tip top and front.... oops. well I don't really care anyway, it will grow out enough by NYC in OCT.
I had an EXCELLENT WEEKEND, went to an Episcopalian church Sun morn with the ex gf and her folks like I already mentioned. My former English prof Dr. G was there with his wife so I got a hug and from both and said hey, we're all getting together at Homecoming this year with another former prof and a handful of former students this year. Should be a good time, i also spoke to him about my teaching experience etc. also saw a friend, H's mom. I asked about him and found out he's still in CA. SHe obviously proud of him and I said how I was also so impressed at him being successful and getting out of the small town AR to CA. He went out there and did some interning for a music company, then began working for this songwriter who writes tons of Celine Dions big hits... kept working, at some point ended up at Picasa, then Google, and now Youtube via Google. He's also still the same nice guy which is cool. anyway, went back to the gf's place and they fixed an Indonesian style lunch with two kinds of nut sauce, sauteed pork ska bobs. chicken, rice, fried shrimp chips, soy sauce from there etc... THey were missionaries there at one point so they were trying to remember some tastes and foods. ha I rested easy lazy SUnday afternoon and hung out at my friend S and J's place the couple I always stay with, played with their two boys all day kidding around. then by 7 we went back to the ex gf's place for "music night" party she'd she'd planned . I arrived same as Cas and Trac, a married couple from church. SHe brought her guitar and played a few songs and sang. Her voice is the most beautiful bluegrass sound. whoah! my friend J and S arrived and J brought his guitar. a guy named David came with his guitar (wish I remembered the name it was sort of like a slide guitar), his mandolin, and banjo. so we all ended up sitting around the room in a big circle listening to them all jam and play and taking turns, Trac sometimes on flute, the others whatever and sometimes we'd sing or just listen to the instruments. there were some nice old tunes from college that my bud J wrote and used to perform, I'll fly Away, Old rugged Cross, songs I didn't know by Missionary TImes and Carter Family.. etc.. and into the night til we'd all had enough and people had to be getting home. btw there were drinks being served in the kitchen so this wasn't exactly a vespers evening. but I have to say an Awesome time!

TOday we were up and just lazying around. I got over to my buddy Jeff's place ( he's the one with three kids ) and put some plants in his yard. he was busy at work most of this weekend long story installing new software the company was switching over systems or something. this afternoon I drove with S (she's the girl I grew up with here in OKC and her husband was a roomate of mine in college so I always stay with them in college, they also know my WHOLE story so we're all pretty close anyway!) she and I drove over to Prairie Grove AR for the CLothesline festival. which is basically a crafts/arts fair. It was all set up on the historic civil war battle ground of prairie grove. I have to say there were some of the best looking guys and gals walking around today, the guys were just plain clothes casually dressed in shape good ole guys you'd want to see. hmmmm. I got out of town by 430 and headed back home. stopping in Tulsa to buy some instant oatmeal with flax in in and then eating dinner at the buffet there. got home a while ago and am now CRASHING into the sack. I'm so glad this is a 4 day week! hope everyone had a great weekend. cheers

enjoy the day OFF!

Sunday, September 04, 2011