Saturday, July 10, 2010

another saturday night! S. A. T.U.R. D.A.Y....NIGHT!

dan got out of the house tonight. believe it or not. to a singles party!
yup, busy damn weekend. last night work until 12 am at the water park since they show movies at the wave pool after dark on Fridays in July.... crazy too since it was sort of cool out yesterday, I can't imagine floating in a pool after dark and watching film.... this morning I went to Home Depot and bought more white fence paint and some jute string to tie up some plants growing, also shopped around for a shower faucet replacement kit, I need to replace the valves in the wall etc etc blah blah. also shopped for a 90 degree joint to repair the plumbing vent pipe that rusted out last year blah again.
work all afternoon, and after work got asked on facebook to a friends party. this is a guy I've known since first grade "B" and "BP". (funny back story I was friends with B and BP from 1st to 5th and remember being jealous of B cause they hung out more and I lived closer to BP. ha ha) anyway, BP is now divorced with 2 kids, and B was married to a girl I had classes with in grad school but it only lasted about a year. so divorced also. poor guy. he's REALLY a great great guy.
well the crowd was different friends of B's from various single's groups he's been involved with in different churches in okc etc... so some introverted guy types there and a LOT of heavy set big and tall single girls... oh sad Christian single girls, why not lose some weight if you're still single and approaching or past 30....? but lot's of fun, and these days I practice my social skills of remaining calm and careful what I say and that I'm listening etc etc... seriously it's a big deal for me cause I used to go in full throttle and non stop talk back in the day....anyway, they had WII On the tv and I won a bowling game, and then they switched to 100 pins etc...then ping pong.
I spoke a while with BP who was this hot stud all through highschool, and he also went to my college. HOT STUD... now no hair on his head but still the same tall built running back body...we discussed his parents who I knew growing up and then talked about where he went to church and how it was off and on... now I'm rambling. that was my night.
I had a message from the hot hung ex navy guy on my machine tonight, the guy that's part native american, but I couldnt' figure out for the life of me the phone number he left, talked way too fast..... ah well, no reason to get off the wagon at this point, I mean I"m on a no guy streak since October... whoah

gone fishin'.......

Thursday, July 08, 2010

I wanna be your boyfriend....

LOVE this song a LOT !!!! press play and turn it UPPPPPPP


got a call from the male nurse today, but I was outside mowing the yard, and then I was painting the fence (yes the old whitewash style), and then cleaning up a bit since the weather was so great this afternoon what with all the cloudy rain this week. I had my record player going on the back porch with a mama's and papa's record playing.... ahhh summer.....
anyway, so we have had a disconnect trying to call back and forth this week.. no plans as of yet but he called a while back saying lets have lunch again, and I called him at the beginning of the week saying let's go swim (at a friends pool in okc) either thrus or fri etc. blah blah . he keeps pretty busy with his 12 hours shifts and then I guess maybe time with his daughter (he shares with 2 lesbian moms).
not much on tv tonight other than a bit of big brother. so I turned it off and practiced piano a bit. tonight it was Beethoven sonatas, and the Marionetttes funeral march. also some chopin hungarian dances... fun stuff...
oh yeah, before big brother I was watching all the flood news coverage in south okc. huge flash flood from a creek down there got all into houses, streets, businesses, and the news copter was flying aroudn showing us the sad sould trying to drive into the flooded streets or trying to push their cars out or getting resuced by firemen...weather is always doing something extreme in OKlahoma seriously.

Wednesday, July 07, 2010

what's going on in there....?

halfway though the week....

no I don't do a lot of manscaping, I'm pretty much just natural. except I take the little scissors and trim a bit below and sometimes some of the underarms. just a tad though.
I'm swimming laps every morning, this being my 4th week. so I don't feel too bad about missing the gym this week. Monday I was at the cookout all day, TUesday working, and then today I decided to stay home and paint the fence. I figured I got in plenty exercise loading up my pickup with a bunch of limbs and brush that I've had piled up in the backyard for a while, took that to the city dump and emptied it in time to get to lunch, new york style sliced pizza. yum
tonight I took out a friend to dinner at Iguana's Grill near downtown. the cheese dip there is EXCELLENT. She's a girl I used to work with at a night school job I had before going overseas to teach ENglish. She knows I am only a friend, I've made it clear not to lead her on in any way etc etc. really nice friend to hang with though, we both love travel, speak spanish, really hate not having our own children, laugh at each other's jokes, have both taught overseas etc etc. only thing is she's Catholic and I'm protestant so we're not "equally yoked". oh yeah, that and I like dick.

Monday, July 05, 2010

speedo weekend anyone?...


I tried and tried to get the Tex guy in the pool today at the cookout, but nothing doing...

pants off confession...

dates with my pants off, well I don't know if you'd call it a "date". it's more like find a guy online or get a call from a guy you met online before and invite them over... only date type experience was with male nurse in Austin where we met out at the club/bar first and then went back to where I was staying to this room up in a tower which had a guest bedroom and then made out tons and messed around a lot more etc...
but I have to confess I did something this morning that I had never done before. an online website for guys to connect has added a feature of chatting and also web camming... yup dan went into a room this morning and tried viewing and then turning on the cam, and next thing I know I'm putting on a little show below the waist. good morning everyone!
yeah, once was enough, I just felt like showing off a bit this morning, it's been so long since I've had the chance with anyone in person. ha
the rest of the day was rather excellent. my okc gay bud and I went to this friend of our's house. where about 6 other guys had come over for a birthday cookout. my bud and I watched an episode of "beautiful people" on Logo tv first, then headed over around 1pm... hung out there mainly was older couples, then us two younger guys, and then this 22 year old shows up. hot straight dark haird tight black t-shirt and tattoos on the arms from Tyler Texas. It was a friend of the guy who's house we were at. they met a year and a half ago and he parties with the Tex guy and his gf chelsea. hot blond from what I saw on his cell phone. also hot stud now and in highschool. he showed me a photo of him shirtless on his cellphone from when he graduated highschool. I dunno what we were talking bout, but I also saw his gf dog and a pic of his great dane. anyway, I don't need to give too many back to back details. that's mike in CA style. ha ha.
anyway all of hung out right up until 530. basically just sitting around inside and laughing at all sort of comments. and me chatting it up with the Tex guy and the birthday guy, of course in the back of my mind I'm thinking how can this guy just sit in and listen in to all these guys talk about sex and stuff and gay topics etc...and who's complaining.
It was a really nice long weekend. you know what, if you have 2 months salary in the bank and own a car, you are in the top 2% of people in the WORLD! the numbers are something like that any way. my best bud in AR called tonight and re assuring me about finding jobs for this fall and all that. I was telling him how I'm pretty well taken care of at this point, paying bills and mortgage and eating and have a gym membership and some fun on weekends. no complaints.
Not having the solid income at this point only has me rely on the security of knowing God more than the security of steady income. that might sound sort of strange to a non-believer but I"m just rambling at this point.
so anyone else do the online camming thing before? fess up.... I'm grading about 5 more essay before hitting the sack tonight.