was up in ARkansas all weekend at my old college town. a friend I hadn't seen in ten years was visiting from OR which what brought me back to town. Caught up with my ex gf from college, stayed with my best friends and played with their kids some.. all in all a great weekend.
also ran into a few people in town as usual whiel walking around downtown for icecream saturday night. and SUnday morning went to an Episcopal church for the first time. A few of my college professors were there and some fellow college graduates. anyway, it was really an interesting service.
my friends still want me to move back to town, but I keep explaining I have my house and family in OKC... although I wouldnt' mind someday teaching at my old college once I ge ta doctorate. who knows...
At the episcopal church I saw this gay guy from town who I met in college, way older dude who directed all the community theatre, well still does. I think at the time he was the only "out" gay guy known in town. He has a son who's married with kids in town and his ex wife and her husband moved back to be near the grandkids. typical. ha
my friend from OR is doing some sort of Psychiatry/social work in portland and has ended up as quite a specialist in dealing with transgender adults. Apparently there is a large population there. who knew... by chance, one of the college profs at church there and his wife spoke to my friend all about their son who is now a drag queen etc... (you may remember the story years ago about the Christian college throwing out the student for being gay, but in reality he was suspended for doing something he had signed a contract agreeing NOT to do when enrolling at the college...well anyway....) I also went by the property I tried to buy years ago here in town. it's right in the middle of town, had wonderful gardens all around, and I had worked there for 7 summers in a row for the elderly couple living there... well I went by to see the place and met the new owner. it had really been let go since the last owners ( a family with kids in which the husband was working at the college, was gay, and left his wife and went back to CA, band eventually forclosed on the house. I had offered 140k on the house in 2004, the new owner got it for around 65k!!!) anyway I met the very nice-looking single guy there who grew up in the town and graduated from my same college. (he answered the door with a nice wad of dip in his lower lip. classic) what's cool is he let me see everything inside and all the yard. I offered to come up anytime and help him get things back into shape. so I think it's really cool he wants to get it all cleaned up again like it looked for years.
I'll be off all this week, swimming every morning, yard work, gym, and trying to condense junk in my house and get organized as usual.