I dont think shopping has to be a gay thing, there is style and then there is spending money on anything name brand.. go for having a bit of style.

If I were in NYC right now I'd be shopping some striking interesting plaid button up shirts. 80's are still making a style influence and preppy plaid shirts are one thing you'll begin to see more of. Sort of like the horizontal striped short sleeve polo shirt was this summer and last...consider while shopping. The best thing is in the 80's growing up I was a STICK and now I can actaully fill the shoulders and chest of a nice long sleeve medium shirt just right, and I'm not muscle stud but after growing up a stick, its nice to see the shape of my body through the shirt and not just the shoulder blades or collar bone. ha ha

anyway, guys, dont' be afraid to get a shirt with some browns or grey in it, try wearing something not everyone else is wearing once in a while, ya know. Myself, I like a good navy blend of colors, or army/camo green blends in my fall shirts. understated and classic, it should be about what's your style and how it fits reallly more than anything....etc etc.. blah...