called the guy up, and then again before leaving work last night, and we met at a bookstore in OKC. borders on NW Xpresway actually, and he had just come from working late and had on jeans and dress shoes and a button up shirt. tall and great looking, clean cut, great voice and smile, he was just right, big and tall and not all muslced out but great strong legs and shoulders and smooth skinned etc... anyway, I just want guys to know that if you are not cut tight and hard but are strong and muscular underneath a few pounds it can be just as hot I think. It's masculinity and charm more than anything for me ....
well we talked for about an hour, he's some sort of lawyer and doing pretty good from what I could see, he was extremely confident, smart, had also attended a private Christian college like me, had been over seas to thrid world countries before like me. and that was about the only thing in common. he makes a lot more than me, obviously since I'm in education, but gee whiz, the guy was driving a new without tags Lexus SUV and when we pulled up to his (big) house afterwards there was his BMW in the drive. and the house was really nice with a pool right out back. and he keeps it heated. ha! so yeah we swam for a bit then inside to relax a bit and some fun. SO much for the one hour just talking, I ended up getting home an hour and a half later than planned.
I told the guy I have more time on the weekends and we should hang out some more or get together again, so he may email or call. you never know with some guys if they are really looking to connect or just want another notch. He did say I was the second guy to ever be invited over but being a guy, I'm sure I've said something similar to dudes before as well. Although this guy is pretty dang successful and busy with work a lot and hangs with all work crowd and say's he keeps it really really discreet and closeted and all that, so could be true. he said he only messes with one married bud of his now and then, and that means stroke and oral. I guess the best thing is like me he no desire for more than that sort of action.
I came home happy and since his house was so clean, I felt motivated to clean mine up a LOT more. I can say that I made a decision today on the way home from work that I prefer to meet guys in person from now on, and even preferably just hang with some guys socially. I'm seriously up for findind some quality all around if I am stuck pursuing the whole guy/guy thing. I had a discussion with the AUSTIN guy from spring break and this LAWYER guy said the same thing, how when they started messing around with dudes started and they got all confused about being bi or gay or whatever, and how sex with guys was just a lot easier to find than sex with girls. well yeah, we all know that's true, perhaps lasting quality is another story though.